The two different perspectives we have to operate in with kids: seeing them as people, or objects and how even good parents seem to want to see kids as objects.
How we often see kids as inferior and not even be aware we are doing it.
How kids respond way more to how we view them, rather than what we say or do with/to them.
That's right, as I was building the text part of this post I changed the title. Executive decision. 😀