The phrase “you made me so…”, it’s destructiveness, and how we’re teaching it to our kids.
3 reasons why the seemingly non-issue you made me phrase is so deadly.
An alternative to you made me.
Join us as we discuss:
How parents have tricked themselves into thinking parenting is about them.
The nasty results of using kids to bring us joy.
How parenting must be seen as giving with out receiving, to actually start receiving.
Something called a 90/10 principle that will change your life!
Today, we are going to go back to FPN’s roots in a classic remix, and remember what our purpose is and what it isn’t as a parent. It’s NOT about us.
Join us as we discuss:
How to silence the cannons of hearts at war with our kids.
How were not just talking about knock down drag out fighting, but even the subtle fighting too.
How we often see ourselves as more vital than our kids, and how that is tearing us apart.
SHOW NOTES
The Heart at War Series:
Episode 1 Are You at War with Your Kids
Episode 2 Why We Gotta Stop Seeing Our Kids as Inferior
Episode 3 We Create Our Own Problems and Conflict
A research article finding that parents frequently see their kids as a part of themselves, rather than as their own people.
How parents often want their kids to achieve the dreams they never felt they could and live vicariously through them.
How we need to allow our kiddos to develop into what they want.
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The Primary Core philosophies of FPN and how they are connected.
Correction, Teaching, Parent/Child Relationship, Other Relationships, Way of Seeing.
How most issue DO NOT LIE with correction like most want to believe.
SHOW NOTES
Episode 161: When Nothing Has Worked for my Kid – show Jeff and I did taking these philosophies deeper.
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An interview with Renee Mercer and her career in working with families dealing with bedwetting and enuresis.
When should parents (what age) begin setting up a bedwetting treatment?
What is the best way to treat bedwetting?
What do you do if your kids going off to summer camp but still has occasional accidents.
SHOW NOTES
The Bedwetting Store – Renee’s wonderful and very comprehensive store for families growing kiddos working through bedwetting at http://bedwettingstore.com
Seven Steps to Nighttime Dryness: A Practical Guide for Parents of Children with Bedwetting – Renee’s book on bedwetting.
Seven Steps to Nighttime Dryness – KINDLE EDITION
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Today marks Part 3 of our Hearts at War Series that helps us determine why our parenting techniques just aren’t working with our kids.
How most parents in their fights with their kids are in conflict, but collusion…you heard me right…
How we get “in the box” in our thinking about our kid which can actually prevent solutions from occurring.
SHOW NOTES
The two different perspectives we have to operate in with kids: seeing them as people, or objects and how even good parents seem to want to see kids as objects.
How we often see kids as inferior and not even be aware we are doing it.
How kids respond way more to how we view them, rather than what we say or do with/to them.
That’s right, as I was building the text part of this post I changed the title. Executive decision. 😀
Join me as we discuss:
How many parents want change in their kid, but miss this one crucial step to make it happen.
How most parents hearts, even when they love their kiddos, are at war with them simultaneously.
The places I have caught my (Trey’s) very own heart at war with people, even my kids.